Little Leaguers: Teens Without Tact

We give no offense in anything, that our ministry may not be blamed.

2 Corinthians 6:3 (NKJV)

Nevertheless, lest we offend them...

Matthew 17:27 (NKJV)

To the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews... to the weak, I became as weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.

1 Corinthians 9:20-22 (NKJV)

Tact is an 'acute sensitivity to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, including the ability to speak or act without offending' (The Free Dictionary).

True confession: I was a tactless teen. Impetuous remarks jumped from my mouth into unprepared and unwilling ears. Speaking too quickly, without situational sympathy, remains a challenge for me– even now.

It also smacks of immaturity, and too many people never grow up:(

True observation: Notable wisdom and maturity are certainly NOT dependent on age. (Some elders are NOT. Some young people ARE.)

Bottom line: Teens without tact won’t work in the big leagues of entertainment. Unwittingly, Christian performers label themselves as peewee performers with foolish remarks. Examples:

  • Model: I hate these clothes. Can I wear something else?

  • Actor: I don't get this line. Can I rewrite it?

  • Singer: I prefer to sing pop. That's my best brand.

  • Dancer: That move isn’t in my “best move” wheelhouse.

  • Christian performer: I need to pray before I take this role. (The practice is good. The wording is not.)

NOTE to Christians:

Common Christian terms are unfamiliar in the meccas of mainstream media.

Therefore, learn from Jesus, and learn from Paul. Speak the language and respect the customs in the mission fields of entertainment. You rep your Leader best through good actions.

But when you DO speak, use diplomacy. Only then can you rise to the majors.

Little Leaguers: Teens Without Tact (Part 4)

NOTE: This is a 2023 update of a 2013 Carey Lewis Devotion. You may see notes to 'Actors, Models & Talent for Christ.' If you think you're not in show business, think again. Shakespeare said, 'All the world's a stage and all its men and women merely players. Mostly true. But you're not merely players. You are messengers and ambassadors for the King of kings.

Carey Arban